Opening women and starting a conversation can be one of the scariest things in the world for a man. Why is this so hard for the majority of men? Women are human beings just like us. They have the same feelings, emotions, nuances, and flaws as the rest of us. As men, we sometimes get entranced in their beauty and find it hard to gather to courage to go up to her and say something. This is what many people call “Approach Anxiety”.
Overcoming approach anxiety is a huge hurdle for lots of men but if you are able to do it and actually talk to women, you are a step ahead of the rest. I wrote a previous article on how to help overcome this fear if you want to check it out here.
Assuming you are one of those guys, now you have to figure out what you’re going to say when you actually do open them up. This can be a challenge in and of itself.
Today, I am going to go over 5 different conversation starters you can use to open women easily, and effortlessly.
Simply Ask Her How She’s Doing
Honestly, the delivery of the opening is actually more important than the opening itself. Every opener I am going to share with you today will work easily as long as the delivery is solid. This means, when you’re approaching women, do not be a creep and give creepy vibes. You want to be opening women like you are talking to an old friend or acquaintance.
Simply asking a woman, “What’s going on, how are you doing today?” with confidence and poise, she will most likely respond to you favorably. Make sure to keep a nice smile/smirk on your face so you have a good energy about you.
Ask Her About Her Opinion On Something
This is one of my favorite ways to open a woman. Women are naturally curious. They love to talk and offer their opinions on a variety of subjects. The most popular subjects are gossip, relationships, psychology, astrology, and drama.
Here are a few examples of what you could open with:
“Hey, let me get your opinion on something. Some friends of mine recently got divorced one of my girlfriends thinks it’s because their zodiac signs didn’t match up. What do you think?”
“Hey let me get your opinion on something. Is it true that women care more about emotional cheating vs. physical cheating?”
“Hey, let me get your opinion on something. Do you think it’s ok to be friends with your EX if you’re in a relationship?”
All of these will seamlessly open the door to a conversation.
Say Something About The Environment Around You
The next time you go out, I want you to really observe your surroundings. Everyone is so glued to their phones nowadays that no one is actually enjoying the scenery and nature around them. Lots of interesting things are happening all day every day. Even if you’re going out to a bar or club, observe the surroundings. There are things you can easily comment on and notice the next time you’re out and want to open a woman.
For example, a funny story my friend used to tell me is that he used to go to a certain nightclub where they had a coat check-in. However, after some time and at night the sign that was supposed to say “COAT CHECK” looked like it said “GOAT CHECK” so he would simply make the observation to a nearby girl and she would laugh about it – starting an easy conversation.
He’d say to the girl “Did you check in your goat yet?”. He’d get a smile and funny look and then point at the sign and say “Look, the sign looks like it says goat check doesn’t it? Instead of coat check”. The girl would laugh and then he’d follow up with “Haha, hey what’s up my name is Mike, what’s your name?” Boom. Easy conversation starter.
Go out and observe the surroundings and find things you can talk about with women!
Open Women With A Corny Pick-Up Line
Using corny pick-up lines is actually one of my favorite ways to open women. The reaction you get from them is just priceless. As I said above, as long as the delivery is solid, you will usually get a favorable response. I used to think these wouldn’t work well but I ran into a guy named Vincent Valentine on Youtube who was using these effortlessly and the women were absolutely digging it. Check him out if you don’t believe me.
A few of my favorite ones are:
“Hey, is your name Ariel? Because you and I, we MERMAID for each other”
“Hey, do you have a bandaid? Because I scraped my knees falling for you”
“Hey did you see any police around? No? Good, cause I’m about to steal your heart”
Open Women With A Bold Statement Of Interest
Opening with a bold statement of interest I think is one of the most powerful ways you can open women. This way is probably the hardest and most nerve-wrecking, but if you can overcome your fear and do it, women LOVE it.
To go up to a hot woman and boldy give her intent is something only the bravest men can do and women will recognize this. One of my favorite lines to open up a woman this way is:
“Excuse me, I saw you standing over here and I just wanted to come over and tell you that you are absolutely stunning and I’d be kicking myself all week if I didn’t come over and talk to you. What’s up, what’s your name?”
Do you see how powerful this statement is? It’s direct and straight to the point. It shows extreme confidence and it puts the idea immediately into her mind that you are interested in her in a romantic way.
Go Out And Open Women
Now that you know 5 simple ways to go out and open women, do it!
According to a survey of 1000 women, 93% of them said they prefer a man to ask them out, and only 6% prefer asking a man out. Out of this 6%, how many would actually do it?
You need to go out and open women to have any chance with them. Go out there and give women what they want! They want a strong, confident, bold, and masculine man to approach them. Are you going to be that guy?