If you talk to any number of super hot girls and approach them, you will start to see one thing over and over – she is going to test you. If you fail these tests, you will not hook up with her. Period. You will join the piles of men she’s had to reject because they weren’t confident enough. These tests can be one of two types: compliance tests or congruence tests. Today, we are talking about compliance tests.
Most really hot girls’ tests are enough to make men run away with their tails between their legs. The GOOD news is that there is a way to pass these tests nearly 100% of the time. If you know the technique to pass them, you are going to be in the VERY small percentage of guys who make it through her defenses and actually become sexual candidates. If you don’t know this technique, you will fail these tests and never gain entrance into the world of attracting and sleeping with truly beautiful women.
First, let me explain a bit more about these tests and WHY hot women NEED them.
What Are Compliance Tests?
A compliance test is an act or a statement that checks to see if you are going to do whatever she wants. If you comply, she will gain control over the conversation, the interaction, and you. It seems like women want you to fail these tests so they have the power, right?
Fortunately, that is not the case. When women give compliance tests, they really do want you to pass them. It’s their way of filtering out a truly confident, attractive guy from the rest. It may sound strange, but beautiful women honestly can’t just look at a guy and say “he’s good-looking, therefore he’s attractive.” Women look for many more qualities to determine attraction. A lot of guys approach them in a day so they have a short time frame to get it right. Guys will hit on a really attractive girl 10-15 times a DAY!
That means a really attractive woman is hit on 3,650(conservatively) a year. She will start to see patterns in the ways guys behave if they are actually confident or not, and that has nothing to do with looks. Girls are masters of judging a book by its cover. They usually have developed a sixth sense for filtering out the beta males from the alpha males.
The compliance test is really a test to see whether or not they’re going to be able to get away with whatever they want. Why do they want to test this? Well, they want to find out whether or not you’re used to beautiful women hitting on you or whether or not you’re used to being with beautiful women.
This is a very crucial concept. Guys who are used to being around women don’t bend over backward for them. Beautiful women WILL give you compliance tests. Failing these compliance tests guarantees that you will not attract them. It’s very simple but very crucial that you learn this.
How Do You Recognize Compliance Tests?
Basically, look for any demand that she gives you within a short time of meeting that seems small, but gets you to follow. These tests are usually VERY subtle. A lot of times, you might not even recognize them. However, I want you to start being aware of these tests and start to be able to point them out. Let’s look at some classic examples of compliance tests girls might give to you when you’re out.
- “Can you buy me a drink?”
- “Will you get me a napkin from the bar?”
- “Can you hold my drink for a second?”
- “Wait here while I go to the bathroom”
- “Give me a kiss on the cheek”
- “Will you take a picture for us?”
Women go for the throat here when you’re in the bar because they don’t have a lot of time to figure out who’s confident, and who’s not. How you respond to these compliance tests is very crucial when you’re in a bar. Agreeing to do these things off the bat shows that you’re a pushover and that you’re willing to comply with her. If you do this, she’s going to know immediately you are like the millions of other guys out there that would do anything for a beautiful woman. Saying no outright to these tests shows that you are just an asshole, and are boring.
So how do you actually pass these tests?
Passing A Compliance Test
The best way to pass these compliance tests are to take control over them and then add your own terms.
Before you actually comply with her request, make sure to ask her for a small compliance test of your own first. For example, if a beautiful girl asks you to get her a napkin from the bar, you should first ask her,
“Sure, but I need you to meow like a cat first”
She’s probably going to look at you funny and say “What?”
Then you just back up your statement, “I’ll grab you a napkin from the bar if you meow like a cat first”.
Make sure while you’re saying this, you have a slight smirk or grin on your face. Your compliance test should be fun, light, and entertaining for her. If you do this right, she will laugh at you and probably comply with your quest and go “Meoowww”.
Then you can make fun of her again and say something like “Haha, omg, I can’t believe you just did that. I’ll be right back!” And then you go grab her a napkin.
If for some reason she says no to your compliance test, just simply say to her “Ok”. Smile, and then ignore her request and move on. Most of the time, if she’s worth it, she will agree to your compliance test. If, for some odd reason, she gets upset, just move on because she is not worth the headache. If she can’t even have fun with something like this, is this the type of girl you want in your life anyway? Probably not.
Why Does This Work?
Essentially what you’re doing now is you are getting compliance from them. Passing compliance tests this way is EXTREMELY effective. This is also called flipping the script which you will probably hear about often. Flipping the script is one of the most powerful things that you can do to a woman you don’t know. Doing this creates massive amounts of intrigue and attraction. You are demonstrating to her that your favor MUST BE EARNED. This shows that you are confident, fun, and not a pushover.
When you start doing this, you are going to see the truly beautiful women in the bar start to treat you in a completely different way. You’ll start watching other guys approach, get shot down, and see it ruin their nights as you easily navigate the sea of compliance tests and come out looking like a rockstar. You will make her more and more attracted to you since you’re the kind of guy who won’t just do exactly what she wants.
This is one of the “Sexual Triggers” that drive beautiful women wild. Watch the rest of them in this short presentation: